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Shining a Light on Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month


Every year, thousands of families around the world experience the devastation of pregnancy, stillbirth, and infant loss. The pain and grief of losing a child regardless of the stage of pregnancy or age of child are unimaginable, and the impact on families is profound. To raise awareness and support those who have suffered, October is observed as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. In this blog post, we will delve into the significance of this month, explore the grief experienced by families, and discuss ways we can show support and create a more compassionate society.

The Significance of Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month is a dedicated time to honour and remember infants who have died during pregnancy, childbirth, or shortly after birth. The month serves several important purposes:

  1. Raising Awareness: This month brings attention to a topic that is often shrouded in silence. By raising awareness, we can reduce the stigma around infant loss and promote open conversations about grief and healing.

  2. Supporting Grieving Families: Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month provides a platform for families to share their experiences and connect with others who have faced similar tragedies. This sense of community can be immensely comforting during times of grief.

  3. Education: It offers an opportunity to educate healthcare professionals, policymakers, and the general public about the causes and risk factors associated with infant loss, as well as the importance of improved support and resources.

The Grief of Infant Loss

The loss of a pregnancy or infant is a unique and devastating type of grief. Parents and families who experience it often face a range of emotions, including:

  1. Shock and Denial: Many parents initially find it hard to believe that their baby has died, leading to a sense of shock and denial.

  2. Anger and Guilt: Feelings of anger, guilt, and self-blame are common, with parents questioning if there was something they could have done differently to prevent the loss.

  3. Depression and Isolation: Grief can lead to deep depression and isolation as parents grapple with the profound sadness of losing a child.

  4. Anxiety and Fear: The fear of experiencing another loss or the anxiety surrounding future pregnancies can be overwhelming.

Ways to Support Families During Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month

  1. Listen and Offer a Shoulder to Lean On: Sometimes, the most meaningful support is simply being there to listen without judgment. Allow grieving parents to express their feelings and memories.

  2. Acknowledge Their Loss: Don't shy away from talking about their baby or using the baby's name. This acknowledgment can help validate their grief.

  3. Remember the Date: Mark important dates like the baby's due date or the day they passed away, and reach out to offer support and comfort on those days.

  4. Donate or Volunteer: Consider making a donation to organizations that support families affected by infant loss or volunteering your time to help with awareness campaigns and events.

  5. Share Resources: Share resources and information about support groups, therapy, or counseling services that can help grieving families cope with their loss.


Infant Loss Awareness Month is a crucial opportunity for society to recognize and support families dealing with the unimaginable pain of losing an infant. By openly acknowledging their grief, offering empathy and support, and promoting awareness, we can contribute to a more compassionate and understanding world for those who have experienced this heartbreaking loss. Let us all come together to shine a light on infant loss and show our solidarity with grieving families during this important month and beyond.

At Mountain Brow Counselling, we are committed to helping women and their families through this difficult time. To learn more, please book a free no obligation telephone consultation to find the therapist best suited to your needs.

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